You Are Not Your Brain
There’s a voice in your head that judges you, doubts you, and keeps you stuck.
Most people believe that voice is who they are. It isn’t.
Richard D. Waldman created The Order to Life System™ to help people recognize destructive mental chatter, return to the present moment, and take back control of their lives. Because the greatest investment you’ll ever make isn’t in what you own—it’s in how you think.
If It Weren’t for Our Brains, We’d Be Well
You could say that our attempt to heal ourselves, in Steps 1 & 2 below, is an oxymoron, which is why we call this process “Mental Health Madness,” because we’re attempting to heal that part of our psyche that has never been well.
True Leaders Are Healers
If you’re stuck, it’s not because of your situation. It’s because you believe everything your brain tells you. The mental chatter running in the background of your life sounds convincing. It uses your own memories as evidence. It sounds like logic, like caution, like truth. And because of that, you trust it—even when it’s the very thing holding you back.
Fear. Self-doubt. Overreaction. Feeling like you can’t quiet your mind isn’t a character flaw. It’s what happens when no one ever showed you how your thinking actually works. The goal isn’t to silence your thoughts. It’s to interrupt them.
That’s why I created the Order to Life—a simple thinking system that’s easy to understand and transferable. Once you learn it, you can teach it. As you master the Order to Life, you become a Brainyite—someone who leads by example, helping others recognize they are not their brain. Because in the end, true leaders are healers.
Ready to stop reacting and start choosing?
If It Weren’t For Our Brains We’d Be Well!
In Step 1, you will learn that our highly creative, chaotic, and nonsensical brain has the power to create on its own. It has created a distorted image in our head of who our brain thinks we are—an image with a judgmental nature that we have been educated to live through. This image is commonly known as our ego, which has a gatekeeper: the chatter-in-our-head. Its job is to keep us where we are—or worse—by filling us with all sorts of negative, destructive thoughts and feelings that long to take us in the wrong direction.
Welcome
Meet Richard D. Waldman and discover the story behind
The Order to Life System™
The Order to Life
A thinking system designed to help you manage
the chatter in your head that’s managing you.
You Are Not Your Brain
Purchase the book, apply the principles, and become a Brainyite!
What other’s are saying about this process.
“Richard has a strategy, The Order to Life, unlike anything I’ve ever seen before. He’s all about principles and attempts to level the psychological playing field by suggesting that our chaotic and nonsensical brain is not our best friend, whose goal is to keep where we are or worse. And the biggest take-away was feeling that I too can be a Brainyite, who sees a negative thought as an opportunity to practice, which is what self-education is all about.” Sarah J.
“My husband and I were having marital problems and Richard was able to assist us by introducing The Order to Life diagram that helped us to be more affective in the way that we communicated. For example we had a habit of arguing over “stupid things” and Richard pointed out that “stuff” will always happen, the question is, how do we manage it.”
Emily R.
“Richard’s coaching took me to places I have never been before, by sharing with me, perspectives that enabled me to see the connection between me, my brain, and the side of my personality that moved me forward and the side that held me back, which made all the difference in mean understanding what I needed to do.” David K.
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